Have you grown tired of the same old BDSM plays you always gravitate toward? Time to put a little twist on them.
Accessories can help elevate any kind of play, whether that be sensation play, impact play, or role-playing. Women in female-led relationships can even learn a thing or two from our list. Trust us when we say that anything you can think of can be made better with just a few accessories.
We have compiled a list for you to choose from, of course. It is time to intensify your BDSM sessions!
Accessories Will Complete Your Experience
Do you know how people say that accessories will complete any fashion look? They will do the same for your BDSM plays!
We are talking about different kinds of accessories here, though. However, most of them are beginner-friendly. But, in this article, we have compiled a BDSM list for people who are a bit more seasoned. None of that is to say you can’t get into them — they just need a bit of practice to use.
BDSM covers a lot of categories. Some you just cannot experience at their full potential without adding some flair. Regardless of what kind of scenarios you usually enjoy, they can all use more spice. For example, it’s surprising what a simple pair of handcuffs can do.
Accessories make everything sexier and bring your plays to a whole new level. A simple dominant and submissive play is excellent, but doesn’t it all get better when you add something to it?
Spreader Bars
Can you guess what this one does? It helps with spreading, that’s right!
Spreader bars are great for bondage, and they serve to keep one’s arms or legs apart. They usually consist of metal bars or rods, but wood and plastic ones exist too. A great feature is that they have built-in cuffs or rope, so you don’t have to worry about having those.
This accessory is excellent for Dom/Sub plays. It allows for more control and domination over the submissive partner. A spreader bar is bound (pun intended) to make you feel vulnerable, as restraining usually does.
Sex Machines
Sex machines may not be so common in the BDSM community, but here’s why they should be.
A sex machine does what you imagine it would. So how do you put that to your advantage? They can be awesome for training your Sub. Or if you enjoy watching your partner have multiple orgasms.
You can let the machine work on your partner while you tease them. That’s a lot less multitasking for you, and it results in you having more control. You can also control the thrusting patterns and speed levels the machine is going to work at. It’s pretty convenient.
Wrist and Ankle Restraints
This is an accessory you can have multiple variations of. Think of regular handcuffs but fancier.
Here we’re talking about wrist and ankle cuffs. They can be helpful when attaching your slave to other accessories like spreader bars or hogties, or for anything else, really.
Restraints are usually made of leather but can have fur lining on the inside. Well, we did say they’re fancy! While they do let you tie someone up immediately, it’s up to you to decide how you’ll use them. You can let the other person wear them as an actual accessory, then decide to restrain them when they misbehave.
Lockable Butt Plugs
Lockable butt plugs aren’t for the faint of heart. In fact, many people find them extreme.
When you take a first glance at this toy, it’s massive (and heavy). There’s no way that’s not going to just slip out. And it also spreads while it’s inside?! That’s where the locking comes into play.
This toy is excellent for control play. You decide how much the plug will expand before you lock it in place. They can come with a padlock and a key, or with a little timer lock. Can it be taken out without a key? Not a chance. Take a closer look at these lockable butt plugs from LTC.
Anal Hooks
Anal hooks have been used since medieval times. Back then, they were torture devices. It’s a little bit different now.
Hooks are an excellent accessory for those who enjoy it a bit rough. They provide incredible anal stimulation and even sensations of double penetration. Hooks can also help a lot in bondage scenarios. One of the ends has a ring you can use to tie the rope into a cute little bow.
Now your submissive is a present to you, and the hook is a gift from you to them. These toys take a bit of time and practice to master, so proceed with caution.
Cock Cages
This accessory is an excellent way for you to explore how long you can go without orgasming.
Put bluntly — cock cages are male chastity devices. They control and strip you of your ability to get an erection. Dominant women often put their submissives in cages to push the boundaries of intimate power play. You won’t even be able to touch your penis! The cage surrounds the whole penis and testicles, allowing urination but preventing everything else.
Cages are secured by a lock, and you won’t have the key at your disposal. You don’t have to wear a cage all day (but you can). It’s all about control and how long you can play the game of chastity. (Read more about the best cock cages here.)
Latex Suits
Latex suits are something anyone can wear, even if you’re a beginner.
There are different variations we can talk about, though. There are catsuits, gimp suits, and various other kinds. Some come with zippers that allow access to certain areas. That way, you can play with your submissive despite the bondage element.
These latex suits are very tight. That means you can’t take them off on your own. You’ll need help. It puts a lot of accent on control play as you don’t get to decide when the fun time ends — your master does.
Summary
There are plenty of accessories on this list to explore. Each one brings different sensations to the table.
Whether you want to wear a latex suit or try an intense butt plug for couples, this list has it all. It’s only a matter of choice and your level of BDSM expertise.
If you’re a beginner and these accessories sound fun to you, don’t worry — you can practice and find yourself using them in no time.